Embracing the IDGAF energy: Welcome to the We do not care club.

In this episode of the Red Lips Real Talk podcast, the hosts discuss the viral 'We Do Not Care Club' initiated by Melani Sanders. The conversation explores how the light-hearted movement has resonated deeply with women of all ages, particularly those undergoing perimenopause and menopause. The hosts read and react to relatable and humorous comments from the club's followers, emphasizing the importance of embracing aging and letting go of societal pressures. They also touch on the supportive role of social media and the wider cultural shift toward authenticity and self-acceptance.

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Transcript

You are listening to the Red Lips Real Talk podcast where we talk about life, love, and everything in between. You already know it's time to get real

Oye breaking news. We've officially entered the I Do Not Give a Fuck era where the dress code is budo. Comfort opinions are spicy, and our tolerance for BS was left somewhere on Biscayne Boulevard. We're unbothered, unstoppable.

I love it. So what are we talking about? Club. We do not, not care club. And we're gonna become members. Oh, I was a member. I've been a member. I'm, I've been a member for about a, a few months now. I'm not a minute. We gotta find that South Florida chapter and if there's not one we gonna make it. I know when I first saw the video of the We Do Not Care Club, I was, uh, laughing my ass off because you could relate to everything she was saying.

It hit me in the fields. Like I, I watched it and I was like, oh God, that's. What a genius thing to say. 'cause all of us think that, I don't care. I don't care. But she did it. Yeah, she did it. Yeah, she did. And it was a, it was a great video. And we're talking about Melani Sanders, though. You've probably seen her on social media, Instagram or TikTok.

Her, um, handle is just being mey where she started, you know, this thing, this rent in her car, talking about what she didn't care about anymore due to perimenopause. So if you haven't heard it, we're gonna play it right now. And by the way, she's from Florida. She's from West Palm Beach. Yeah. We about to start a, a Perimenopause menopause club.

Okay. And it's gonna be called a We Do Not Care Club. Okay. And that's, that's what's the acronym. We do not KISS us for WDNC. WDNC. That's the name of our club. And we don't care. Lemme tell y'all what that means. That means like right now. I just came from the grocery store, baby. I got on a two little sports bra.

Okay. 'cause I couldn't find no bra. That's how this is all I have. And this is, and guess what? D-W-D-N-C? No. Yeah. W-D-N-C-I do not care. Okay. And you know when the, when the bra be too little and everything, hang in one side, then everything's, that is my situation right now. And I don't care. I do not care.

I'm not, it's funny, but it's not funny because for real, this is my, this is what's in my head. Look at this. I could have put some edge control on. No, I don't. No, I'm not, I don't gotta put on edge control and I'm not gonna do that. And so y'all, everybody, let's just let any comments, let's all talk about what we don't care about today.

Okay? So today I do not care that I don't have no real bra on and I do not care that I don't have edge control in my hair. I don't care. That's it. That's the story. Period. Point blank, period. Po.

I can totally relate to that. Yeah. The bra, I don't care. I don't care. But that went viral. Yeah. I mean, it's everywhere. They even talked about it on like the view and like local Jenna, Jenna and Jenna and friends. Yeah, Jenna and friends. I love that. I love that she has different people every time. I think it's really cool.

Yeah. It quickly became viral because she just, that was posted in May. Yeah. Mm-hmm. So it's crazy how so many people mm-hmm. Can relate to that. Yeah. Oh, absolutely. And it's not, you know, it's funny that I, I saw some comments. It's not just perimenopause. You got some 20 year olds in there. Yeah. Oh really?

Yeah. Like, you know, yeah. And I may be 20 years old, but I still do not care. But I still, yeah. Which is, I mean, awesome. I mean the, the we do Not Care Club, um, is a movement and is a defiant response to societal pressures, uh, and expectations or judgments, especially among even the youth online, just like you said, Monica.

And, um, I thought it would be kind of funny to read the comments. I think the comments section of that. Viral video, which she's done a few more after that, man, I'm like, I'm crack lacking at three o'clock in the morning by myself. And my husband's like, what are you laughing at so hard? And I was like, I can't breathe.

I can't breathe. So let's read a few comments. Yeah. You have some, um, yeah, I just wrote some that I was like, that I could relate to. One was, uh, we do not care about what's for dinner. If you're hungry, go in there. Figure it out. Well, I'm gonna jump on that. 'cause there was this one lady who just grabbed the chair, opened up the refrigerator, sat in front of the refrigerator in the chair, and just started eating right out of the refrigerator.

Oh my God. And served herself, opened up a bottle of wine, started drinking, and she was like, I don't care. I, I. I don't wanna wash dishes, I don't wanna cook. I'm just going to eat whatever I can. That is definitely the way to do it in the refrigerator and with her legs crossed, serving wine, eating out of the refrigerator, and I was just like, she really does not care.

She does not care. She does not care. I like this one. We do not care that we want to be home all day on our days off. Everything I like is at home. I paid for it. I'm gonna stay in it exactly. A hundred percent. Let's see, there's another one. Hold on. Okay. This is good. I do not care how long it takes for me to put my wallet back into my purse after I pay for my groceries.

Your turn starts when I am finished. Don't rush me. People staring at you like, hurry up lady. No, you gotta wait. I wrote this one down. Um, we do not care about if we forget what we are talking about, just start a new conversation and if we remember, we'll come back to it. We had that today. Twice. Twice.

We're like, wait, what did we say? Who are we talking about? That's me. You have any, Jeff? Yeah. Well, there's one here that got like over 10,000 likes that says we do not care if the neighbors see us in our bathrobes or in our pajamas on the porch at six, seven o'clock in the morning while we're drinking our coffee outside, looking at the flowers, and watching tiktoks all day on our phone.

I don't care. You don't need to be looking over here.

Keep it moving. Keep it moving. Here's another one. We do not care about our summer bodies. Summer is getting the same body every freaking season. I don't care. We do not care. That's a good one. We do not care how long it's been since we pulled out the stove and refrigerator to clean behind it. It's not, my business was behind there.

We do not care. We do not care. If it's 5:00 PM we drinking coffee or we drinking wine, one or the other. That's a good one. Oh my God. This is hilarious. We do not care if I lost my cell phone while I'm talking to my sister on the cell phone. We do not care that she's telling me that I'm listening to her on the cell phone that I'm looking for.

We do not care.

Oh, that's so funny. Where's my phone? We do. We do not care if we've had the same dinner for three nights in a row. You're going to eat whatever. I felt like cooking, so it's spaghetti and meatballs for three days in a row because we do not care. That's me. What do you want for dinners? Spaghetti meatballs, leftover again?

Yeah, that's what's there. That's what's there. We do not care if someone comes knock on the door. If we are not expecting you, we are not coming to the door. That's me. I'm like, who's that? I'm not answering. Well, here's a, here's a second part that the same lady did that kind of touches on that. So I'm gonna play that as if that's okay with you ladies.

Yeah. Okay. So here we go.

I started this club for all women going through perimenopause and menopause. We are simply putting the world on notice that we no longer care anymore. I would like to go ahead and get started on our announcements for today. We do not care if we wash your socks and drawers inside out. That is how you left them and that is how you will receive them back.

Huh, we do not care. If something is not dishwasher safe, it is now and will be from now on. We do not care if the cashier at Popeye's automatically gave us the senior discount. 93 cents is 93 cents.

We do not care if the closed captioning is annoying on the TV screen. This helps us stay focused.

We do not care if we were using a flashlight on our phone to look for our phone. We do not care if the house is clean when you come over. Also don't come over

that. That one is me. The last one. That's the one that made me think about it. Oh my God. Oh my God. What she said. We do not care if we're looking for our phone while we're using the flashlight from on our phone. I was crack lacking. Okay. The thing that she said about the closed captions on the TV when you're watching.

Mike hates that. He's always like, oh, take it off. Take it off. And I'm like, no. I don't know. Maybe it's an an older thing, but I, I love it. I love having the closed caption on because it, it lets me focus a little bit more, but he doesn't like it, so I found myself. Kind of just taking it off to make him happy.

And then I remembered about the We Do Not Care Club and um, I'm watching this show on Hulu that's called, UM, nine Perfect Strangers. And sometimes it's, they talk so low and it's dark right. And I, I can't like hear them. I can barely see the screen. So I put the closed caption and he got like, oh. And I was like, we do not care.

Like outta nowhere. I was just like, we gonna leave the closed captions on. 'cause I don't care what you think and I need this right now, Mike. So walk away while you still can't. And he was like, oh, okay. Okay, okay. Sorry. Yeah, I'm sorry. She's like, she came into my body as I was saying, it was so funny.

There's one from France, logging in from the Paris, France chapter of the We do not care club. We do not care if carbs and butter are bad for us. Give us the damn croissant and nobody gets hurt.

That's my daughter. She loves croissants. I think reading the comments, what why we laugh is because it, it, in reading so many people's reactions and their comments, it made you realize that, um, that you're not alone. Right, right. And. And that it's, and that aging happens to all of us and that there's beauty in aging and, and it's not just an age thing.

'cause you did bring up people join the club and they're in their twenties, you know? But I think the overall consensus is that it's a little an an older woman thing and reading their so many women's comments, I was like, oh, it's just not me. It's just not me. It's not, I'm not cr I'm not crazy. Right. Yeah.

So that, I think that's why it's such a huge movement. It made you feel validated. It does, yeah. She had a. Teen Edition one. Did you listen to that video? No. Um, we do not care if your friends' parents let them do it. By all means go live with them.

Oh, these are great. We do not care if you are mad because I check your location. That's the reason why we have this app. We do not care how tired you are. We have been tired since you were born. That's the good one. And it's crazy how this, oh, I'm so tired. What did you do today? We do not care if you say I was gonna do it.

Quit lying. Go do it. Go do it. I know, you know, it made, it made me kind of think about, 'cause how many times have I said in past episodes where I'm like, oh, can I wear, can I, okay, here's, I'm just gonna keep it real. Like sometimes I'm like, man, maybe I don't, I can't wear a bikini. I. Because I don't have a bikini body and I'm older, or should I have like feel bad?

'cause I like long hair and I'm older. Should I have short hair? And I've talked about that many times with you guys. You know, and the bikini thing, I think a lot of women can relate to, can relate to that because, you know, there's this, sometimes we put on ourselves like, oh I, my body looked like this when I was 20.

I'm not 20, I'm gonna be 49, and I'm like literally knocking the door to 50. Why did I put this expectation on myself that I was supposed to have that body at 49? You know what I'm saying? Yeah. So this is a joke, but it really helped me in the sense of like, I don't care that I don't have. A bikini body of my twenties at 49, I don't care.

No. I'm grateful that I just have a body and that I can move and that I can enjoy my life. Right. So this movement of defiance, I think has been a breath of fresh hair for all of us. Absolutely. I can agree. Yeah. Yeah. Because in respect to that bikini, no one cares. No one cares. No one cares. If you're wearing a bikini, no one cares.

I'm so glad you said that because I, I go to the beach a little bit more often than I used to now. And um, I was having a really great day. I was with Mike. We were sitting down having a couple beers and there was all types of bodies walking by, like, you know, beautiful bodies, regular body, like just all types of bodies.

And I saw this, uh, woman whom, God, I don't wanna put an age on her, but she looked like she was maybe in her seventies, you know, and she was wearing a bikini. She was living her best life. She was living, living her best life. And I was just looking at her like with eyes of like, she's so beautiful. Yeah. You know what I mean?

And um, it, it made me realize I love what's happening today. That we are. No longer putting these like restrictions on ourselves, like the we do not care club and, uh, we're trying to just be happier. Yeah. Do what you want, what makes you feel happy. Yeah. Those, I think those days are slowly dying of like the rules and regulations and it's like, hallelujah.

I agree. Mm-hmm. I agree. 'cause I'm, I'm over it, I'm over the expectations. Well, well, they say that you need to let go of what no longer serves you, right? Mm-hmm. So if you have these negative feelings about, well, my house is not clean enough. I'm not thin enough or I don't make a lot of money, or I'm, I didn't do this or I didn't do this.

Like, Hmm. You know what I'm saying? It's, it's, it's kind of like, it's not serving you to think that way about yourself. Focus on the other parts, which are great too, and it puts a lot of pressure on. You're putting a lot of pressure on yourself. I was just saying before we started this episode, before you came, we were talking about my dogs.

I have five dogs that live in my house. Yeah. And you know me. Yeah. I used to be super paranoid that my house smelled like dogs, so I was always like, da da here, cleaning this, washing this, da da. Now I do not care. Seriously, I, in my, in the back of my mind, I have to admit, like, I think about it and I'm like, hopefully my house doesn't smell like dog, but I don't go outta my way to make it not smell like a dog.

I'm like, I don't care. I have five dogs. But see that was all in your head because your house never smells like dogs. I know that. It's funny 'cause I'm sitting here kind of like, I'm like, I've never walked into your house and being like, wow. Her house smells never, but I've always been super paranoid about it.

But it worked. But I have five dogs that live in here and they're, but, and if you don't know me, four Rottweilers. Yeah. I have four Rottweilers, big dollars, four big dogs. One small dog. Yeah. Super paranoid now. I'm like, I don't care. I don't care. I don't care. And I don't care if you don't like my dogs. I don't care.

Those are my babies. Those are my babies. The same with me. I have, I have the big dogs too. I'm like, I don't care if you come into my house and my house smells like dog. Hopefully it doesn't, but I don't care. But I don't care. You don't care. But I don't care. I know when she started this, she was mostly focusing on perimenopause and menopause.

Right? Which obviously we have talked about that so much because it's our age range and, and things like that, but it's, I find it shocking how so many people who are not going through that still we're like, I wanna be in that club. Yeah, because she started it more on the, I mean, her first video was perimenopause and menopause, but there's people who are not going through perimenopause or menopause, and they were like, oh, no, no, no, no.

We wanna be in this, in this club too. We wanna be in this, this club too. Yeah. You know, but I, I can't speak for her, but I think that maybe what she was trying to also convey in that message, because it's a hard time for a woman. Right. We've talked about that in depth. Okay. Um, but it's like. You have complicated relationships, you have maybe some career changes or career pivots.

Um, you know, I personally know a few people. Who work their asses off and they're in their late fifties and they're burnt, but they're afraid of getting fired because they're older. Right? And then they're like, if I get fired, no one's gonna wanna like, hire me. You know? Um, and I think about those things and it's like they, they probably be like, I don't wanna care about those things.

I wanna be free. You know, and this is a small way for someone to get online and say all the crap that they wanna say. Yeah. So they could feel better, uh, about themselves because aging is. There's two ways you can take aging. You could take it with grace and and in class and laugh about it. And then there are people who are truly struggling.

Yeah. With the aging process. So I feel like this little video that she did meant a lot to a lot of people. Indeed it did. I know people from both worlds, you know, like the people that are aging gracefully. And then I know people too that I have had a difficult time with it. So I know people that have been, you know, embracing aging, you know, aging gracefully.

And I've also talked to a lot of people too that just are not taking it well, and they're negative about it. It's, um, for me it's a little, I think I'm taking it, like I'm embracing it. I feel like I'm embracing it, you know, I'm gonna tell you guys something that I, I don't think I've ever said this out loud and this, it's very vulnerable for me, but, um, I've been, I haven't worked since COV.

Okay. And, um, I feel like I definitely wanna go back into the workforce and full time. Mm-hmm. And I looked at my resume and, uh. I was like, lemme go on social media. And I uploaded my resume into a few little places and they were like, you can tell that you're old by your resume. And I, I was like, oh wait, who said that?

So, because I sought advice. Oh, okay. I sought advice. Oh, okay. And they were like, you can tell that you're from an older generation. We need to. Modernize it. So they gave me examples of what, um, a 25 year old's resume would look like. Okay. Which was extremely helpful. Immediately I noticed the differences.

It's drastic when I tell you something so simple as. A resume that you upload or, or give to someone is so drastic. And then I read this article, well, I don't know if it was an article, lemme take that back. It could have been a, a TikTok comment, but somebody had invested a lot of money into, um, getting a great resume.

They got a few interviews and when they showed up, the people were like, oh, I didn't know you were this. Sold. And that made me feel a certain way because I know a few people personally, not me, but other people, that they're like paranoid about losing their job because this is a very real thing, uh, for them.

And it's like how nice it would be that we lived in a world where those things didn't matter, that you. Didn't have to worry, worry about that. Like who cares about that? Right. Like, who cares about that? Right. But those are real things. So when you have these movements like the We Do Not Care Club, and you're able to read other people's comments, whether they're funny or not funny, it makes you feel seen, it makes you feel heard.

Right. It makes you feel like you're not alone. Yeah. And that's how it made me feel. Mm-hmm. Because sometimes I, I'm struggling now. I never struggled with it before. Now I'm struggling with the aging thing, and I don't know why. Maybe it's because I'm turning 49. It's my last 40, right? Um, but I haven't been taking it.

Well, ladies, I'm a little scared. I, I, I didn't take 40. Well, turning 40, like when I was turning 40. Yeah. I didn't take that well. I was like, oh my God, I'm turning 40. What have I done? That's what I kept asking myself, like, what did I do? What have, what have I done? I don't know. Mm-hmm. So 40 for me was hard, but I don't know, I don't, I don't feel that way with 49.

I actually feel completely different. It's funny you say that because Jessica said that too, and we must see just, um, and I remember Jess said, bring it 50. Yeah. Mm-hmm. And, uh, I don't wanna lie. I don't wanna lie. 'cause I think lying, you get caught. And I, I'm, I admire it and I admire what you just said, but I don't feel that, I feel like I'm really struggling with it.

Like I'm scared. Yeah. I'm scared to turn 50. That's okay. Yeah, that's okay. I have one more year to, to get there. Mm-hmm. I hope I can say I don't care. I'm turning 50 right now. It hurts. The thing about hurts the we Do Not Care Club is it gives us permission to stop asking for permission. Right. Okay. Right.

Yeah. So you right now you're having a hard time with it. Yeah. And that's okay. And who knows. Is it okay though? Is it It is. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. I feel guilty because I see other women on social media and, and my, and my girl, my closest girlfriend's embracing it. My sister's best friends who are turning turned 60, and they're like, we don't all go through the same thing at the same time.

I'm like, why don't I feel like that? Why am I like scared? Well, I guess it's a, it's a new chapter. Yeah. Yeah. It is a new chapter. Mm-hmm. So you're, you're just, yeah. I can't believe I'm saying this in this episode, but it is just, uh, yeah, I'm, I'm feeling a little vulnerable about it, but you're not the only one.

Okay. I'm sure there's millions of women out there Yeah. That are feeling the same thing. Definitely. You know, aging is, is is hard. You know, I think I see the aging more things change. Yeah. I'm not gonna say that. I see it now. Yes, things are perfect. I didn't see the aging in 40. In 40. I still felt, I don't know if I'm using the right words, but I still felt really sexy.

I felt strong, I felt, felt, but I think the difference with me was that I, I was already feeling the premenopausal. Symptoms. Oh. At that time I wasn't, and I re and I wasn't aware of what was going on with me. I didn't learn until later, you know, talking and learning and I'm like, ah huh. This is what I've been going through.

So I started at, at, at around 39, you know, and that's why I am proud that Gen X has brought this to the forefront. Yeah. Because I feel like. Just like our girlfriend said in the past, it's like Gen X is not taking no for an answer. We wanna know why we feel this way, right? We wanna know what we can do about it to make ourselves feel better.

And I feel like what our generation has done, the women now in their forties and and fifties, for our younger generation behind us, the 20 and 30 year olds, like, I feel proud of that. I feel proud of the discussions that we're having, the candidness, the rawness, the realness. Like I think we're really.

Prove me wrong. I think we're the first generation to be this raw about it. Yes. Oh yeah, for sure. Yeah, we are. And because of that, I noticed a lot of men getting more involved. Yes. Yeah. Like I saw a, a video of someone buying a book and having the author sign it. It was a man. He was like, you know, I know my, my wife is going through this where she's gonna go through this and I wanna understand it.

That's beautiful. 'cause I know it's a big deal. Yeah. So I was like, wow. He's not the only one. Yeah. You know, I've, I've seen other TikTok videos or Instagram videos of men talking about that. Yeah. Like, you know, we need to be there for our wives or our partners. That's awesome. Yeah. That is beautiful.

Beautiful. And understand and learn more so we know what they're going through. Because they don't, they go through their own thing, but they don't go through the hormonal things that we go through. Right. You know what I mean? They have their share of struggle. Yeah. Mm-hmm. No, they do. They do. I think ours, ours is like, like I said, it's very hormonal.

Exactly. It's so erratic. We go literally go crazy. Yeah. Yeah. And we think we're, you know, we divorce rate is the highest during that time too, you know? Yeah. It reminded me of a comment that I received in a video that I did a long time ago on TikTok. He was like, you're doing, I'm watching your video and I, I feel like the things that you're saying is what my wife says to me and I don't know what to do.

It's just what you said, Monica. So thanks for bringing that up. 'cause it triggered a memory and you know, he sent me a direct message. He's trying to learn. 'cause he wanted to learn. Yeah. And it's amazing. Yeah. That is amazing. We give them props because it's hard and I know it's hard on relationships. Mm.

Mm-hmm. Especially if the woman doesn't know that she's going through it, why she's going through it, why she's going through it, or why is that what's happening? Right. Or why it's happening. And she's, you know, still learning. Yeah. So you're not gonna under, she's not understanding. You're not gonna understand.

Yeah. So, yeah, exactly. Information is. Vital. Mm-hmm. And very important. So I, I give them props and I'm glad that they're getting involved. I had a conversation with one of my daughters and she was like, mom, like I know you talk about it a lot, but I'm actually seeing it. 'cause she's here for the summer and then she's gonna go back, uh, for studies.

And she was like, mommy, I am seeing it. She, I see what you're talking about. Like, uh, you know, you have so much anxiety. I think my anxiety is back, girls, it's back with a vengeance, so I need to go get another little pellet. Um, sensitive, high, high sensitivity. Feel like, you know, any little thing they say, someone says to me, that hurts my feelings.

I want to cry. And things like that. And she was like, mom, I'm so glad that you've taught me about this. 'cause when it happens to me, I'll just get help. Yeah. And that made me feel really proud of what Red Lips Real Talk is doing. Absolutely. Mm-hmm. Because they have an idea now they know, okay, we, it's so lemme go get some information.

And that's why we do this. We started this as friends to have fun, grow closer together in our friendships. But this has evolved into something a little bit bigger than us. Yeah. And I'm proud of. The caliber of episodes that we're releasing, uh, what we're trying to do in our community and, um, in our legacy.

It's our little legacy. Yeah. And I, I'm, I'm, I'm proud of it. Yeah. And I'm glad they were here. We are sharing, I think this is one of, I'm gonna sound mellow, dramatic right now, even the, but I feel like this is one, one of the things I've been the most proud of my life is that we have done this. Yeah. This is something to be proud of.

I think so. Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. I'm proud of us. I'm proud of it. I'm proud of what we're doing. And uh, I do care if you follow us, that we do care. We do care about that. I do care. I ain't gonna say I don't care about that. Don don't think I'm gonna be here. Like, I don't care. No, I, we do care about our listeners.

We care. You share, like, and follow. Yeah, share, like, subscribe. We care and we care if you leave us comments 'cause listen. Every time we get a comment, Monica's like, we got a comment and we're like, who sent it? Who sent it? Sometimes it's people we know and then when it's a complete stranger that nobody knows, we're like, yeah, we're, we're jumping and celebrating.

We get so excited. So. If, if you see that we care, leave a comment. 'cause we care. We care about your comments. Yes we do. Did you know that there's a song? That's right. There's a song someone created. Somebody created a song for the We Do Not Care Club Play it.

We do nothing

in our own way. No, no change. We're breaking free. This is the vibe of the WD and.

Yeah. And the woman who created that song was Laurie Kay on TikTok her Awesome. Giving her credit for the, that's talent. I'm gonna go ahead and follow her. Let me tell you the, the talent that you're finding on these social media platforms. Like TikTok and YouTube and, and content and Instagram. It's like people are like really self-promoting and you're finding raw talent.

People who would never, ever be given a chance are doing it on their own. Yeah. They're like, I don't care. If nobody wants to gimme a chance, I'm gonna do it myself. Right. It's a wonderful thing. Yeah. That's the beauty of social media too, though. Mm-hmm. Those are the, the good things about social media. I mean, that's how they found Justin Bieber.

Yeah. You know? Oh, sharing his stuff on social media. There's so much opportunity. Well, he, if, correct me if I'm wrong, but I think Justin Bieber was, um. Promoting himself on YouTube and then somebody picked him up. It was either Usher or people like Usher, like somebody really famous were like, wow, this kid is like super famous.

And that's how it started for him. Yeah. Wow. And I know people like they, they do covers. On TikTok or Instagram. Yes. And people start tagging the artists that they're covering. Mm-hmm. And then sometimes you see them reposting it or making comments and yeah. Wow. That's cool. Yeah. Have you heard about how they're trying to stop Kelly Clarkson from doing.

Covers? No, because she does them better than the artists. Wow, I didn't hear that. You gotta be honored. Yeah, yeah. But Kelly sings your song. That's Kelly Clark Clarkson is in a league of her own though. Yeah, she is. I love Kelly Clarkson. To me. She could do no wrong. Absolutely. But you can't be men. She like your song.

No, no, no. I just found it funny that people are like, oh my God, you don't want her to sing your song. Yeah. She's gonna do it better than you. Yeah. That's sad. But is it is true. I love Kelly Carson. I think she's just. So funny. I just really like her. There was a girl on social media that was singing a pink song.

Mm-hmm. I think it was, it was pink and she. She was, what are they stitching or, you know, she was, they showed her listening to it and she was like, eh, she sound better than, you know, she did a better job than I did. Yeah. You know, and, but the girl was really good and, but that's, you know, but she was honored.

See, that's Kelly Carson. You gotta be honored. She, you gotta be honored. I think so. I think you should be. She better not freaking take that Kelly karaoke out 'cause. We should play in honor. I mean, I know it's kind of not the same thing, but let's, we should play a Kelly Clarkson doing a cover song of something.

So let me find something here.

I mean, I get it now. She's the bomb.com. I mean, I get it now. Like she's incredible. She has an incredible voice. She does. She does. She started some drama with that, Josie, that song. Why She did, because she did the wink with when the girl, what Wink She winked. Okay. Something about girl, when it was talking about the girls.

All the lesbians were like, oh, did you see that? What? Oh yeah. I was not following. And they were, they were, they were reposting Uhhuh and were talking about her. It was so funny. That's funny. Oh, no. I didn't know that. They asked her about that. She was like, I just winked. You know? It was funny. I think if you are singing a great song and Kelly Clarkson wants to cover it, you made it even more.

Oh, yeah. She's given you, she's given you big, uh, props there. Well, I'm gonna tell you the we do Not Care club. Um, yes, it's supposed to be funny and it's supposed to be like something that's not taken too seriously, but I think a lot of people have taken it very seriously. Yeah. And it's been very liberating.

I'm a proud member of club. I'm a proud member. Think, I think, uh, many people are like closeted. We do not care members. Mm-hmm. Yeah. And if you, I mean, if you are, you gotta go on there and leave her a comment telling her what you don't care about. Yeah, let her know. I love that she's from Florida. Sorry, sorry, not sorry.

She's from Florida, west Palm Beach in the house. So like, yeah, go ahead and leave Melania comment on her Instagram account or her TikTok and tell her what you don't care about because she's reading them out loud. She's giving you, you know, the little, she's going through her list. Yeah, she's writing them down and she's going through the list.

Would you ladies like for me to read some We do not Care Club jokes? Yes. I want to hear. All right, let's listen. Why did the We Do Not Care Club cancel their meeting? Because nobody showed up and nobody cared

what the shit was. Funny. Okay, one more. I have a few. I have a few. Okay. The We Do Not Care Club just released a mission statement. It's meh. Okay. Okay. Oh, that one gets an applause. Yeah. Okay. One, I have two more and then we're done. I applied to the We Do Not Care Club. They lost my application and I asked if they could find it.

They said, honestly, uh, we didn't even read it, but congratulations. You are now the president. I thought that was fun. Good Lord. Tough crowd. Tough crowd. This is tough crowd, right? This is the last one. Let's see if it gets an applause. The We Do Not Care Club has just launched a podcast. It's called the whatever podcast.

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